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« on: August 15, 2004, 02:36:18 PM »

Goa is a state in India predominately Catholics. Now the Churches in Goa are actively into educating people to refrain from Paedophilia. Why the Churches in Goa covered up this crime until the Paedophilia was exposed by non-Christians?
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« Reply #1 on: August 16, 2004, 08:34:14 AM »

Pedophelia is a horrible sin and a crime.  We went through this in the US and found that the media did not always print the truth.  They sometimes printed innuendo as fact.  Some of the accusations of pedophelia were found to be outright lies against good priests.  

I don't know much about the situation in Goa, but my suggestion is to take whatever you hear in the media with a discerning mind.
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« Reply #2 on: August 16, 2004, 08:56:40 AM »

I am not talking about the Priests doing this, but why the Catholic Churches getting involved in educating the people which they were supposed to do long time back. Why the Church closed their eyes to this horrible crime?
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« Reply #3 on: August 17, 2004, 08:39:58 AM »

This reminds me of the saying "You can never win".

When the Church gets involved in doing something good, instead of Praising God for it, there will always be some people who ask:

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why the Catholic Churches getting involved in educating the people which they were supposed to do long time back.

C'est la vie?

Hope not at this community. Remember, we're here to bear fruit people.

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« Reply #4 on: August 17, 2004, 08:44:40 AM »

About this statement you made Seeker:

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Some of the accusations of pedophelia were found to be outright lies against good priests.

Fyi, there have been no accusations of paedophilia against the priests in Goa (or anywhere in India to my knowledge).

The problems exists widely because Goa is a top tourist spot (amazing beaches, cheap drugs) and lots of "phirangs" (foreigners) who are tourists abuse the poverty ridden class children. A US dollar is worth 46 INR & a UK pound 85 INR. Poverty sometimes forces the parents to give their children to these people as well.

More about this here.

All those who read this, pls. say a prayer immediately so that NO MORE children are abused in Goa or anywhere in the world. AMEN.

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« Reply #5 on: August 17, 2004, 09:04:19 AM »

Hi Melody,

If you don't want any more children to suffer and you think Catholic Church can do some "good things", I think the attention should not only go to educating people of Paedophilia but towards a lot of other "good things". For example encouraging the young people to stop smoking instead of promoting such acts on the TV.

If you read my post you will see that I am not against the Church doing good. I am against the Churches closing it's eyes to such crimes for generations. Are you saying that every Priest and Church in Goa was unaware of this child abuse?

There is a lot of other crimes that is happening in the Churches need to be cleaned out. Prayers can not make any changes unless you are ready to sack some of the Priests home who are abusing the Catholic Churches.
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« Reply #6 on: August 17, 2004, 09:10:12 AM »

I am horrified about the incident you mentioned Jesusandyou. What did you do about it? I hope you ensured that the culprits were brought to justice.

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Sorry bro, I don't know which Jesus you believe in, but the One I know, said "Ask & it shall be received."

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« Reply #7 on: August 17, 2004, 09:21:46 AM »

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Fyi, there have been no accusations of paedophilia against the priests in Goa (or anywhere in India to my knowledge).

Thanks for the info Melody.  The education sounds like a response to the abuse in the area by foreigners and maybe from the scandals in the West.
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« Reply #8 on: August 17, 2004, 09:33:28 AM »

What did I do? Yes, I informed your Bishop and their spiritual father that there is abuse taking place not only to their children but to the public also. The Bishop told me he is busy healing the people and disconnected the telephone line. Then I spoke to another Bishop. He told me a good % of people who come to their parishes are criminals including the Ministers that I spoke about, but he can't do anything. Then I saw a nice article on geocities.com that the Ministers are going to skin (in other words kill me) me. Finally it was found that the person who posted that article was the Minister's webmaster. Yes, I brough all of them to the justice. On August 5, 2003 the Minister removed the profanity from the geocities.com site.

You did not read the rest of the sentence. Prayers can not make any changes unless ...

Jesus may receive Melody. He will not receive you if you have cheated the public with your schemes and did not pay them back.
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« Reply #9 on: August 18, 2004, 05:36:03 AM »

I live in the Archdiocese of Portland in Oregon. I am very familiar with the problems of pedophilia, as this situation has driven my own Diocese to bankruptcy (the only diocese to be so affected).

The VAST majority of the problems my Diocese faces are the result of ONE priest - Fr. Maurice Garamond (sp?).  In hindsight, many people have now testified that they thought something was wrong at the time, but they didn’t take appropriate measures. The bishop of this diocese at the time (now deceased) was apparently aware of these accusations, but did not take appropriate action. So you cannot necessarily trust the bishop to do what needs to be done.

Jesusandyou, if you have credible knowledge of pedophilia, then I urge you to ACT on this! I am a US citizen, so I am most familiar with US laws, but I believe that pedophilia is a crime in nearly EVERY jurisdiction in every nation. I urge you NOT to contact the bishop, but to contact the POLICE.

This is a SERIOUS CRIMINAL matter and must be addressed first and foremost with the police! Had someone done this years ago in my own Diocese, a great deal of victimization could have been avoided, as well as hardship to my Diocese.
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« Reply #10 on: August 18, 2004, 01:48:30 PM »

If you are the victim of a crime (or know of criminal activity) then you need to report it to the POLICE. Those of us in this Community can pray for you, but we cannot arrest, prosecute, and imprision criminals. You should file a police report first, and THEN ask the Community for prayers (though not in an apologetics forum).

As we have found out in Oregon, where there is one instance of abuse, there are often many more (usually by the same small number of pedophiles). If you do not report such abuse to the police then it is likely that additional abuse will occur.

If you have information about criminal activity and wish to protect other innocent victims then you should immediately file a police report. I wish someone had done that in Oregon years ago.
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« Reply #11 on: August 18, 2004, 03:32:05 PM »

Hello One and All,

I am not sure what the situation being described in Goa is.  The postings have not been very clear on this and it seems that Jesusandyou will not be able to comment further.  But this is what I think has been described in this forum:

1)  Certain people in Goa commit the crime of pedophilia, which pertains to an adult having sexual relations with a child (usually defined as someone who is under the age of puberty).

2)  Although priests are not the pedophiles in this case, Jesusandyou contends that they must have been aware of these crimes in Goa but neglected to educate people about the evils of pedophilia.

My response:
A )  I have no idea what the priests in Goa knew or did not know.  Therefore I will not presume to judge their alleged silence.  And I say "alleged silence" because I do not know what actions these priests took or failed to take.

B )  The Catholic Church has always taught that sex is a sacred act reserved for a man and a woman who are joined together in matrimony.  Any sexual relations outside of this, including pedophilia, is a mortal sin.  Pedophilia, being a crime against children, even goes beyond the sin of fornication.  This teaching of the Catholic Church is no big secret, and I would be GREATLY surprized if there were even one pedophile in Goa who thought that the Church did not condemn his crime.

C )  Like everywhere else in the world, I am sure that lots of different crimes are being commited in Goa.  Shall we criticize the Church for not speaking and educating the public about all of them?  Should each parish host a thousand different meetings each month to discuss the problems of each criminal activity?  Should priests stop preaching homilies at Mass and instead recite law codes to the congregation?

I agree that bishops and priests should be sensative to the evils of society and work to educate people in hopes of building a better world.  If bishops and priests do not do this then that, indeed, would be a failing.  But there is only so much the clergy can do and it's easy to make a big list of all the things a priest should be doing on a daily basis and criticize him for not getting it all done.  We are all in this together, and the Church is more than just the clergy.  It is all of us and we all share the responsibility of making the world a better place.

D )  The Church is not the police.  The Church does not have police officers, guns, detectives, patrol cars, drug-sniffing dogs, task forces, judges, jails, handcuffs, wire taps and survelliance cameras.  The Church does not conduct stake-outs and cannot serve search warrents.  If a crime is being commited, one must go to the police.

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Then I spoke to another Bishop. He told me a good % of people who come to their parishes are criminals including the Ministers that I spoke about, but he can't do anything.
It is one thing to criticize a bishop for not doing anything, but I am curious as to exactly what Jesusandyou expected him to do.  Personally I am glad to hear that criminals in Goa attend Mass.  Maybe the Church, through the preaching of the Word and through the power of the sacraments, will help them change their ways.

God bless,
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« Reply #12 on: August 19, 2004, 09:35:42 AM »

If I am the head of a Church and if you report to me that there are members of that Church is involved in Paedophilia, I would gather all my sheeps and make sure that none of them are involved into this. I would soon start an education among the people to get freed from that. I am happy that the Churches in Goa are doing that. But if I close my eyes and say God will take care of it then I should be fired until I understand the importance of my position -- that is to lead the sheeps in the right way.
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« Reply #13 on: August 19, 2004, 05:56:54 PM »

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Jesusandyou, exactly how would you make sure that the members of your congregation aren't involved in pedophilia?  Please give me some concrete examples of how a priest is supposed to determine who the pedophiles in his parish are.  I think this is a fair question to ask you or anyone else who blames priests for negligence.

For example, in the U.S. an employer is allowed to make background checks on his employees to make sure that they have not commited crimes against children in the past.  My own parish has about twenty employees, and they have been properly checked.  But our entire parish community contains about 2000 families and we have no way or legal right to make background checks on them.  Therefore, if I wanted to "make sure" that none of my sheep are involved in pedophilia, please tell me exactly, in concrete terms, what I or my bishop can do.

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« Reply #14 on: August 20, 2004, 08:25:29 AM »

I have to disagree with Rev.Eric's view about doing background checks on all the members of a Church. How did Paul find that there is fornication among the members of the Church? I don't think there was any background checks available in AD 60.

I remember an incident of a Priest who was arrested in California for child abuse. Later the police found that he had some outstanding warrants in New York. My qn is can you find any criminal record on all of the Priests who were taken to jail for abusing the minors? So, background check can't solve the issue for all.

What about confession stand? Won't any of your members confess about their sin. You can easily find the spiritual life by looking at their involvement in the communion. If you have 2000 member of families in your Church, you are a shepherd for all. If you can't lead them all, then you have to divide the big church to small and appoint priests for small parishes. So the priest of that small church can have attention towards all the family members.

Churches have counseling sections for Marriage. I believe an "awareness" session for sexually addicted people will help.

David mentioned in his message that there were members of the Portland Diocese testified that there were members who were aware of the sex abuse. That’s the reason you have the elders of the Church to monitor the sin in the Church.

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« Reply #15 on: August 20, 2004, 09:49:29 PM »

First of all, Jesusandyou, I want to commend you for the passion you have in wanting to protect children.  Nevertheless, I still do not see that the criticisms you have posted here against the Catholic Church in Goa are warrented.  But let us look at the things you brought up one by one.

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How did Paul find that there is fornication among the members of the Church? I don't think there was any background checks available in AD 60.
And I am aware that there is sin going on in my community without the need for background checks.  But the point is, how do I specifically know that a person in my congregation has a criminal record involving crimes against children without a background check?  You said that a priest should "make sure" that there aren't any pedophiles.  But I'm sure that pedophiles don't go around talking about their crimes.  They probably try to keep their crimes as secret as possible until they get discovered.  Once they get the discovered, it becomes a matter for the police.

Furthermore, you seem to be implying that Paul set out to actively investigate his community to discern whether or not there were fornicators.  But he probably found out about it the same way most people do - people openly talked about it.

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I remember an incident of a Priest who was arrested in California for child abuse. Later the police found that he had some outstanding warrants in New York. My qn is can you find any criminal record on all of the Priests who were taken to jail for abusing the minors? So, background check can't solve the issue for all.
Background checks cannot fully solve the issue because no system is perfect.  Furthermore, a background check will only show you if a person has been accused or convicted of a crime against children in the past.  If they managed to operate in secrecy then they won't be on the list.  But doing a background check is at least one concrete thing a parish can do to try to keep its children safe from potential predators.

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Anything that is brought up within the Sacrament of Confession is protected under the Seal of Confession.  A priest may not discuss it or act upon it.  If a man comes goes to a priest for confession and tells the priest that he molests children, the priest can spiritually counsel this person and try to convince him to turn himself in, but the priest himself cannot go to the police.  If he does then the following would happen:
1)  The priest would automatically excommunicate himself and would have to cease his priestly duties until the matter was resolved by Rome.
2)  The world media would gleefully report that a priest broke the Seal of Confession.
3)  Everyone would hear about this news story and no one would ever confess the sin of molesting children to a priest again.  Hence, they would not receive spiritually counseling from priests which could assist them in getting help and reforming their ways, and they would cut themselves off from the sanctifying graces of the sacraments which could empower them to do the same.

Having said that, let me point out that if a priest, through a method outside of the Sacrament of Penance, finds out about a case of child abuse, he is required to report it to the proper authorities.  But here again, it becomes a matter for the police.

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I'm not sure what you meant.  Did you mean "involvement in the community"?  Yes, a person's involvement in the community can tell me something about their spiritual life, but it doesn't tell me that a person is specifically a pedophile, unless I see him actively abusing a child.  If I actively see such a thing, I will put a stop to it and inform the police.  But the topic of discussion is whether or not the priests in Goa were negilgent.  Do you know for a fact that a priest in Goa actively saw someone abusing a child but decided to keep it a secret?

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It would be nice if there were enough priests and parishes to do that.  Most dioceses in the U.S. are experiencing a priest shortage.  But in any event, we are talking about concrete ways that a priest can "make sure" that there aren't any pedophiles in his congregation.  How does giving my parishioners more attention help me discover that one of them is sneaking around molesting children?  Furthermore, is there anything that a priest could do in this regard that any other person could not?  Why is it specifically the Church's responsibility to protect children from pedohilia and not the rest of society?  

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I agree.  But let me state that the Church has marriage counseling sessions because marriage is a sacrament.  I am a priest and a minister of the the sacraments and therefore I can speak to people regarding things such as marriage.  But I am not a psychologist and I am not qualified to treat anyone afflcted with any kind of addiction.  In the U.S. there are already orgainizations out there that do this, including those that help people with sexual related psychological problems.

So as a priest I can't treat people for any sort of psychological problem or addiction.  My parish does, however, let Alcoholics Anonymous and Narcotics Anonymous use our social hall for meetings.  The priests don't run these meetings, we let the professionals take care of that.

If there were a prevailiant sort of crime in a community then I think it would be fine and proper for a parish to host a sort of town meeting to discuss the problem.  This sort of thing happens all the time.  But it doesn't specifically take a church to do this.

But I'm not sure how effective a pedophilia awareness program would be.  Generally speaking, everyone knows that pedophilia is a crime and that it should be reported.  Do they specifically need the Church to tell them this?  And if parents want to keep their children safe from pedophiles, they need to keep a proper eye on them.  Once again, do people specifically need the Church to tell them this?  Furthermore, the Church has always been outspoken in condemning all forms of sexual sins.  As I said earlier, I don't believe that there is a single pedophile in Goa that believes that the Church does not condemn what he's doing.

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 Any person in the U.S. who is aware of a case of child abuse is required by law to report it.  I don't know who these people in Portland were or why they failed to alert the police.  But the Church cannot force people to report cases of pedophilia any more than it can force people not to sin.

The Catholic Church does not have "elders to moniter the sins of the Church" nor do I know of any church that does.  Nor do I know exactly how anyone would go about doing such monitering.  Every church and every religion is filled with sinners - that's a given.  If it is discovered that among these sinners there are people actively commiting crimes then they should be turned over to the police.  Once again, it is the police who are supposed to investigate crimes and bring criminals to justice, not the Church.  The duty of the Church, as with all citizens, is to report crimes to the proper authority.

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I am willing to talk about any issue.  But the question remains as to whether or not the Church in Goa is being negligent and I still do not see that this is the case.  You accused priests of closing their eyes to this crime but how do you know what they saw and did not see?

If pedophilia is a wide spread problem in Goa that has, as you say, existed for many generations, then it is a social problem involving all of Goa.  Yes, that includes the Catholic Church but is in no way limited to it. Perhaps the Church could have done more in the past and perhaps the Church can do more today, but why single out the bishops and priests for negligence?  What about the mayor (or whoever is the Indian equivalent to this poistion)?  What about the police chief?  What about the politicians?  What about the OTHER religious leaders?  What about the Muslims and  the Hindus?  What about the Protestants?  And what about all the ordinary people who are in a better position to actually witness these crimes and report them?  What about the parents who are neglecting their sacred duty to keep their children safe?

If you still believe that the Church is being negligent, then I ask you to give me one concrete practical example of something that the Church ought to be doing in Goa but has refused to.  That is what it takes to be negligent.  And being an American Catholic I know fully well that the Catholic Church is capable of being negligent in matters of pedophilia.  But before I agree that the priests in Goa should, as you say, be gotten rid of then I want to see some clear examples of their negligence.  I would also like to know what your sources for this information is.

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Any person in the U.S. who is aware of a case of child abuse is required by law to report it. I don't know who these people in Portland were or why they failed to alert the police. But the Church cannot force people to report cases of pedophilia any more than it can force people not to sin.
The situation I was talking about was the stuff that went on 30 or 40 years ago in my diocese, which is just now coming to light as these victims are now coming forward with lawsuits which have driven my diocese to bankruptcy. None of these abuses (that I know of) have occured in the past 25 years.  Some people back then suspected abuses but said nothing. I don't know why, but as RevEric says, nobody can force them to take action.

But, jesusandyou, you claim yourself to have first hand knowledge of child abuse. Have YOU gone to the police???
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