Seeker, you have raised a very important topic in this post and I wish I had more time to give a detailed answer. I have printed the article posted by Melody but at the moment I have only scanned through it. I look forward to reading it in full. At this time I would like to just make a few comments on the remark once given to Melody:
I once was told by a Protestant that Jesus died for us & in Him all suffering was completed & hence the idea of "Redemptive Suffering" is rubbish & the only way we'll be redeemed is if we believe in He who has already suffered for us.
I can see why this person made this statement, based on the truth that Jesus took on all the sufferings caused by sin. But I believe that this person did not properly contemplate the timeless nature of the power of the cross. Here is what I mean by this:
1) Ultimately, all suffering on earth has its origins in sin.
2) Jesus took on all the sins of humanity and therefore all the suffering.
3) The passion and death of Christ is a divine event, and therefore an eternal event. Hence, it transcends time. Because of this, Jesus suffered in the past for all the sins commited today (and so it is with every generation).
4) In light of all this, Jesus took on the sin and suffering of our generation and redeemed it by his sacrifice. The suffering we witness and endure today was nailed by Jesus to His cross, and therefore this suffering is, indeed, redemptive.
5) If we say that there is some type of suffering that is not redemptive then we are also saying that the sin which caused that suffering was not taken up by Christ on the cross. But we all know that Jesus took on the sins of all humanity, so He took on all suffering as well, and He redeemed it all.
6) Conclusion: All suffering is redemptive. But we must keep in mind that redemption is a gift that we are free to accept or reject. Likewise, we are free to embrace suffering in a spiritual fashion (to take up our cross daily and follow Jesus) or waste it by wallowing in misery and asking, "Why me?"
I hope this was helpful.
God bless,
-Rev. Eric